It has been rightly said that Men are from Mars and Women from Venus. Who can understand what men want? What their mind games, thought processes actually mean? Every woman in a relationship with a man is faced with this never-ending dilemma. To gain valuable insights into the male species it is important to look at men from a different angle than women, look at the way they respond, their priorities and their thought processes. One of the biggest mistakes made by a woman is her manner of responding to a man, this can lead to many complications. Understanding men is the key to maintaining a healthy stable relationship no matter what kind it may be.
For greater understanding of the complex male species, it is essential to understand the male psychology and see why they act the way they do. Every woman feels that men want the epitome of perfection when they are looking for their ideal but this is not exactly true. Men preferring serious commitment often look for the ideal woman that will help them achieve their goals and provide them greater happiness through continued love and support. As they usually do not openly access their feelings as well as the opposite sex, majority of men want a girl by their side that will make them feel good about themselves and spruce up their confidence. Women who put their man above all others and follow their heart are also most attractive to men and helps in maintaining a strong relationship.
Self-respect of a woman in a man’s eyes is of utmost importance, if she is able to convey an image of confidence and respect then it is more likely that her man will regard her as a thing of value and strongly protect and cherish her at all costs. Ability to understand the feelings of a man as different from a woman’s is crucial to understanding a man’s nature. There are some universal truths about men that women must be aware off. Firstly men prefer not to be constantly asked to justify their emotions, thus it is preferable not to ask for continuous reassurances. Rather than having long drawn out intense brawls with women, men prefer a compromise to be reached and prefer women who are soft spoken rather than those who are harsh and loud without a shred of femininity.
The key to understanding men lies in the understanding of their swirling emotions, thus women need to know when to push and when to withdraw. Thus after a long and hard quarrel it is preferable to leave men alone for some time and let them rethink a situation rather than constantly prod about the situation. When men are more upset, they are likely to put their attention on other females and thus should not be pushed too far. Another important thing for women to realize is that their questioning over sensitive matters is likely to get them honest and in some cases hard answers, thus it is preferable to leave some topics unsaid. Moreover the recent trend of getting into activities like tobacco consumption and alcohol does not make women more attractive to the opposite sex but portrays them in a negative light rather than a positive one. Thus it is extremely important to understand the male psyche before taking any steps to capture attention.